Birthday remembrances Bob Dalpiaz

Happy Birthday to your Dad today!  Early June seems like such a nice time for a birthday--the weather is usually nice and kids are looking forward to the end of the school year.  Being heavily pregnant in the late spring seems to have it all over being heavily pregnant in the late summer!  Continuing the the them of randomness, here are some images to help celebrate your dad's birthday:

Time Magazine cover from June 4 1928

Front page of a newspaper that was probably available to the Dalpiaz clan June 4 1928. Take note of the article in the bottom left corner about how a judge decided upon custody of a toddler.

"Bobby" is about 5 here with Tommy Lessie

Your mom, dad and Aunt Mary "On the Home Front"

Apparently the Bellmore house. Notice the Dalpiaz men are the only ones in chairs.

Early 1950s

No tribute to your Dad would be complete without a reference to this!

Under the hood probably a decade later

Very proud Dad

1993 Easter

Your Dad was always very kind to me and I appreciated his humor and faith in me.  Still missed after all these years.

PS:  Just in case you weren't aware, you can click on the image for a bigger version.  This will be helpful with the newspaper articles especially.

All the News That's Fit to Print

Random stuff as meteorological summer begins.


 I've been unable to close any doors on those open dates in the family tree recently but I have found a little tidbit I thought you might enjoy.  From the Brooklyn Daily Star April 1925 (or maybe 1926--it's a little blurry):

 Although it appears there was another Peter Manzelli nearby in the same time period, this "bad boy" is definitely your mother's uncle Peter, since the home address listed in this article matches the longtime Manzelli homestead.  I guess smart-mouthing authority is a long standing tradition for young squirts like Peter.  I'm afraid it's quite possible this relative may have been something of a criminal mind in his young adulthood. 

Your grandfather James Coffarelli was involved in an accident with a fire truck rushing into service.  Once again, I could determine this is "your" James Coffarelli from the address given.  Brooklyn Standard Union Oct 1922:

I'm not certain what an "automobile truck" is but this matches up pretty well with James' occupation as a chauffeur.  Good to know no one was hurt.

On another note entirely, it was wonderful to see Aunt Rose, Diana, Linda, Jean, Mallory, Bobbie, Lindsay, Danielle, Monet, Michelle and Marisa at Cheryl's bridal shower this weekend!  Another family wedding is coming up very soon and I can't wait to add Cheryl's name to the family tree. 

Silvio and Marco Dalpiaz

The great thing about retirement is that I can (and do) spend ALL DAY LONG doing family history research.  The difficult part about retirement is that this research sends me off on tangents that get so tangled up that I have to shake my head to remember where I started.  Sometimes these tangents get so tangled that I forget to blog.  Well, I don't forget because my research is often intended to share on the newest blog post but when it gets so tangled that I forget where I started can lead to writer's block.  An example follows! :)

There is a website that contains digitzed newspaper articles largely from small town newspapers in New York State:  www.fultonhistory.com  I'm telling you, that website is a bigger time-sucker than Facebook.  Anyhow, once in a while I randomly search "Dalpiaz" to see what happens.  One of the items that comes up repeatedly are mentions to the property your father owned in the Watertown NY area when you were children.  Another name shows up in those same articles:  Marco Dalpiaz.  I thought it too much of a coincidence that Marco and your father were not related in some way.  So, I decided to track it down.  And so began the tangled road of research.

Marco Dalpiaz was politically active in his hometown of Tupper Lake, so his name appears frequently.  But this article caught my attention:

I remembered running across Silvio Dalpiaz in Lafferty Ohio in census records and newspaper articles about his death.  Marco's dad is a Dalpiaz miner from Lafferty Ohio????  He must be related.  I went  through my notes and see that Aunt Josie told me once that this Silvio was a "distant cousin" to Costante.  The story of the coal mine strike and Silvio's death is an important part of American history.

Although I cannot yet confirm for certain that this Silvio and his son Marco are relatives, I trust Aunt Josie when she says they are.  In your handy dandy handwritten Dalpiaz family tree headed up by Federico (1730), I think it likely that this Silvio is the 3rd child of Fortunato Dalpiaz and his second wife Maria Odorizzi (Fortunato son of Pietro (1815) son of Federico (1765). 

It's amazing to me that the sons of the immigrants Costante and Silvio found themselves near one another in far upstate New York.  It cannot be a coincidence that your father bought property in that part of New York State.  Furthermore, I am humbled by the facts I find about our families that place them in critical points in American history.  I'd feel better finding proof positive of this relationship but I'll settle for the good feelings the story itself generates.

Update from Erie PA

I have just returned from a quick visit to Erie to see Amy and help with some wedding planning.  I thought this would be a good time to update you all as well so you could plan appropriately.  Amy's wedding to Michael Heisler will be held in the Erie PA area in August 2015.  Although the venue has not been confirmed, she is planning to be married Sunday Aug 16 2015.  So--yes, the wedding is in Erie PA on a Sunday in August.

She is debating between two venues.  Nick's Place and the Ambassador Center.  I think you can get a hint from their names of the major differences between the two sites.  She has some tough decisions to make in this regard!!! 

Nick's Place is 15-20 minutes from Erie closer to Edinboro (a college town).  If she chooses Nick's Place, we would probably arrange for rooms at a Comfort Inn in Edinboro as well as for rooms in Erie PA for those that might prefer to be closer to the highway and city life. 

The Ambassador Center is conveniently located just off the highway in Erie and has two hotels available at the site.  If she selects the Ambassador Center, the reception would be held from 6-10 PM as per their policy. 

In either case, it is her intention to hold the ceremony at the reception venue.  We understand this is both long into the future as well as a long trip for most of you so I wanted to get the word out for you to start thinking about your plans.  If you are interested in what goes on in Erie PA, check out www.visiterie.com 

Wedding planning is stressful for all as it tends to say a great deal about the personalities of the couple while at the same time attempting to appease the interests of the families involved.  Amy told me her main focus will be on making the day wonderful for her guests.  I remain uncertain of how to behave as a future mother-in-law.  When you have children, there are some helpful guidelines provided for how to be a good parent.  Not so much in this world of in-lawing. 

Since I've begun looking at this new world as the mother of the bride, I especially feel for those of you out there who have already navigated your way through these waters.  I see you all seem happy and have good relationships with your children, so I will assume it will all be OK in the end regardless!! 

Of course, this all brings to mind our own wedding.  Now I think about what your Mom and Dad must have been feeling.  It wasn't new to them as it is for us, but each child and spouse carry their own weight with their parents and in laws.  Erie will be as foreign to most of you as Walton was for those that were able to attend--it's just a bit further down the road. 

We are looking forward to all the events surrounding Brad and Cheryl's wedding, especially to seeing all of you together again.  Congratulations to Brand and Cheryl on their new home and upcoming nuptials!

Observations of a Firstborn

What a weekend it was!  Saturday April 26 2014 was a very popular day for special events.  Hailey's prom--boy was she gorgeous!  I hope she had a memorable time.  My cousin's firstborn had her First Communion Saturday AND Colleen and Jermaine's New York reception was held in Kingston.

It was nice to see Marguerite and Gregory.  Gregory tells me he's now married!  Angela and Bill looked very relaxed and were ably assisted by Patty and Stephanie.  Cousin Jim was there with Andrew.  Jim took on the photography duties.  I met Jermaine and Jalen assisted Colleen with the "big reveal" of their new baby's gender--it's a girl!!!  They had a cake made colored to reflect the gender of their baby and Jalen cut it open for us all to see a nice bright pink color.  That was lots of fun.

I sat with Bob, Cheryl and Brad, Scott and Linda.  Linda and I talked lots about retirement and upcoming wedding plans but we also talked some about her relationship with her siblings when you were all younger and how that seemed to somewhat be dependent upon where you fell in the birth order.  Linda noted that she regrets that she missed much of Jean's and Pat's younger school year lives due to the difference in their ages. 

It's kind of funny this should come up because I'd been debating using birth order as a topic for a post.  This seems to be a nice segue!  I think every high school senior has to do some kind of major research paper and mine was about the effect of birth order on personality.  (Do you remember what yours was?)  As the high school librarian, I've seen many many senior research topics come and go, but there was always the Big Three:  abortion, death penalty and child abuse.  I would sigh inwardly when students approached looking for resources on these because, after a while, it's pretty ho-hum.  Then there would be those that chose some aspect of a current trend of the time and it would be a challenge to find enough different ways to attack the gas crisis or the shuttle explosion to satisfy the number of students interested in pursuing such. 

But sometimes there were topics that were interesting, timeless and rare.  Cryogenics is one that I remember.  I like to think birth order and personality fell into that category for the sake of the teacher that had to read the paper.  I believe that assignment achieved its purpose as I did learn a great deal about the research process with that paper.  And every now and then, I see it in the news again.  This was true recently when I came across this link on MSN about birth order.  Of course, I read it.  I especially liked that it addressed potential relationship issues when, say for example, a firstborn marries a middle child. 

I have to say it seems I am a classic firstborn.  The article says: "Oldest females, on the other hand, are more likely to be bossy, confident and aggressive than their younger sisters."  My sisters would likely agree though I don't know about the confident part.  As for the firstborn relationship with a middle child (not naming any names here) the article notes: "If you're the middle child, use your natural ability to compromise to decide what you're cool with leaving to your capable firstborn spouse, and what you'd prefer to control."  He calls it compromise.  I call it a survival technique. 

Linda's observations about feeling as though she missed out on some of her younger siblings school day lives points to another birth order phenomenon.  Family memories and stories about the same event can vary greatly depending upon point of view.  The oldest child has a range of memories and stories about a certain period on the family's life that are not the same as the younger children have.  Older children sometimes "lose out" on a set of experiences because they were away from home or dealing with their own families.  We often realize that the older children hold memories that the younger children do not but we forget the younger children have memories the older children cannot have either.  In life, there seems to be great balance and this is a good example.

So preserve those memories by sharing them with those you love.

Jake Odorizzi of the Tampa Bay Rays

Jake Odorizzi is one of the hot shot sensations now playing for the Tampa Bay Rays and Kathleen was wondering if you all might be related.  So I checked up, not expecting to get very far.  But I was wrong and it's worth it to note that it did not really take me very long to locate the following information about Jake's family tree.

If you don't want to go barking up the wrong tree, I'll give you the quick version before I continue-----it does not appear that this Jake Odorizzi is in your direct Odorizzi line.  Too bad, because he's kind of a cutie.

Jake turned 24 about a month ago and is the only child of Mike and Juli Odorizzi.  Jake graduated from Highland High School in Highland Illinois, which is where I believe his parents still reside.  His father appears to be about my age, so I knew I wouldn't be able to find him in a census record yet in order to figure out who the Odorizzi parents were.

So I did some creative Googling and discovered that Jake's Odorizzi grandparents are Wayne and Janice of Canton Illinois.  Wayne was apparently born October 1935 so I was able to locate him with his parents Leo and Wilhemina in the 1940 census.  Wayne is just 4 years old at this time and his father Leo is listed as a coal miner in Macoupin County Illinois--a popular starting point in this country for  your Italian immigrants (including your grandfather Costante). 

Some further creative family tree searching on Ancestry.com led me to believe that Leo was probably Americanized from Olivo. One of the census records indicated that Leo had immigrated in 1905 so I searched the Ellis Island records and found Olivo coming to the United States with his mother Caterina aboard the SS Philadelphia in June 1905 before he'd even turned 2 years old.  Caterina indicated she had come to join her husband Davide.  I found Davide in the Ellis Island records entering the country just a year yearlier to join his brother in law Giuseppe Eccher in Colorado.  Caterina and Davide indicated their last residence was Tuenno, in the Trentino area.

Using the Nati in Trentino records online, I found that Costante Davide (I almost didn't find him because I was looking for Davide and not Costante) born to Paolo and Maria February 17 1874.  Paolo is Jake's great great great grandfather. 

So far, I haven't found Paolo in your Odorizzi line but the search was fun, even if a little scary because this only took about an hour and a half to accomplish.  It would have been nice to claim a professional baseball player in your family tree and you might still yet!  On my "Yankee" side of the family, we can claim a Hall of Famer which is kind of cool.  This search gave me some time to give attention to the Odorizzi line and who knows where that will take me?

Baggage

The last post recalled good times between brothers and sisters while Robert, Bobbie and James were in Florida with Kathleen and Nick.  I asked James to bring these two postcards to Robert and Bobbie for some translation.  Bless them, they worked on it while on this vacation.

This postcard was sent to your grandfather Costante  in 1959 by his sister Rita, who was about 13 years younger than her brother.  Here's how it translated:

I'm sending you these few lines to tell you that we are well as well as you and the family.  I congratulate you for your letter with 5 dollars together with Rudolfo for Momma.  We remember you often.  Momma is always busy making a good (illegible).  It's cold and a little bit of snow is around.  I hope we find you with much health and your family and Victor's family as well.

I have recently heard high school students say they cannot read cursive (which does not surprise me as it is no longer taught), and although I know Robert and Bobbie know how to read cursive, this handwriting must have been difficult to translate, so thanks a bunch!  I may be reading the date incorrectly since I believe Momma (whom I presume to be Barbara Odorizzi Dalpiaz) died in 1954.  

Also from Rita, this time I think it's 1961.  Translation:

Dear brother I'm always late with you.  I'm sending you more Happy Easter greetings.  I hope you are in good health and everyone else.  I believe now that Caroline stays well (illegible).  Good wishes and good health to the rest of the family.

I can only imagine that Rita was receiving some kind of communication from her brother (or perhaps from your grandmother).  It's nice to know they were literate and in touch with each other.  The following article from the current issue of Filo offers some historical perspective on the importance of education in the Tyrol region.  I liked the idea of 'baggage' including reading and writing instead of the usual negative connotation associated with that word.  

We don't do quite as much writing to each other today but we do have ways of staying in touch.  I just wonder if our descendants will ever get that inside view of our lives 50 years hence.