Another door closes on the story of one of your ancestor's lives. Sometimes I get on a streak where I make it my mission to "close the door" on the lives of those that have come before us. I have many names that lack several details but one of the most significant that sometimes is lacking is a death date. When a person lacks a death date, they appear as living in my software. This can be a very long list and it bugs me. So I go off on the hunt. When I can close one of those doors, I say "Bam!" to myself.
Katherine Lessie was the eldest daughter of Antoinette Contenta Lessie and her husband Louis (now I know Luigi). Antoinette was your great grand aunt (sister to your great grandmother Catherine Messa). I was working to see if I could track down a death date for Louis Lessie and ran across a possible match with someone called Luigi Lisi. I discovered that Louis is the Americanized version of the Italian Luigi. When I started searching for Luigi Lessie, I ran across a record for Katherine Lessie Pinto whose father was listed as Luigi Lessie and mother Antoinette from Belmont County Ohio. Click. (But not Bam)
Katherine Lessie Pinto died at the age of 16 of typhoid fever-- a very sad legacy.
This is a death certificate from West Virginia and it appears that Katherine's death occurred in Wheeling West Virginia (though the certificate says Ohio). It seems this certificate was created and signed in 1958 by the Medial Record Librarian of the Ohio Valley General Hospital. I'm not sure of the history of this but all the information fits so I suddenly found myself with this sad story in my lap.
This certificate provides Katherine's birth date and birth location but does not provide her husband's name. There isn't even a spot for that, which I find very strange. Regardless, further research found that Katherine married Frank Pinto (your aunt always told me the Pintos were related) in April of 1917.
It was a very short marriage and I'll continue to look for children just in case. Yes, a child would only add open ended records to my list, but I like to be thorough :) Anyhow, Bam and Bam. Birth, marriage, spouse and death all entered into the software. But I'm still on the hunt for Luigi Lessie.
Thursday, June 19, 2014
Tuesday, June 17, 2014
Their loss is our gain?
Don't you sometimes think about how your parents--or even your grandparents--might have responded to some of the changes in everyday life from "the good old days"? How do you think they would feel to learn that cursive writing hasn't been taught in recent years? Many young people cannot write in cursive. Perhaps that is not the end of civilization as we know it, but this also means they cannot READ it. I have had the experience myself that a student indicated he couldn't read my writing--not because it was messy, but because it was written and not printed. A day may come when no one will be able to read the Rose Jozwicki journal about her Messa family. Or the US Constitution. Cursive is not taught yet the state requires student signatures on test forms. Go figure.
Loyalty cards are another trend that might puzzle your parents and grandparents. How many "rewards" cards do you carry around? Why do we need to "belong" to a corporate giant in order to save 10 cents on a loaf of bread? If it's on sale, it should be on sale to all, right? More often than not, internet is required to redeem these rewards--that cute little coupon doesn't even come in the mail any more. Further examples of impending extinction: coupons and US mail service. It's crazy, but I feel like your Mom would have been all over those rewards and loyalty programs. I can just picture those cards jammed into her wallet--because of course they wouldn't be on her car keys!
I understand that these reward programs are all about getting to you...acquiring your email address is a prime goal. Back in the day, your mailing address and phone number were prime targets. It's evolved to the point where I'll give away my home phone number much faster these days in order to protect my cell phone number or my personal email. Or even my Facebook profile.
Facebook. If I could picture your Mom using the internet (and I have trouble doing that), I think she would love the connectivity Facebook provides. But I can only imagine the trouble it would get her into with those added advertising links and posts. I'm thinking Facebook would not be a big part of your Dad's life except through your mother's sharing.
I recall that long long phone cord at your house. Imagine how your Mom would love that she no longer needed to be tethered while on the phone! That's technology I imagine she would embrace. On the other hand, back in the day when you called a home phone number to speak to someone, you knew where that person was while you were speaking to them. You never had to ask "where are you?" Cell phones take away that parental GPS tool for checking on the young uns. Although there is GPS on phones........
GPS is great but I wonder if today's students have basic geographical understanding as to where they are located and how to get to another location. GPS sends you step by step but you lose that sense of travelling north or west. The little bitty screen doesn't allow you the past luxury of unfolding that monstrous road map and trying to finger point your intended path. Heaven help you if you put your finger on the GPS screen.
It is a wonderful world out there and things have changed over generations perpetually. They will continue to do so. Perhaps someday someone will be wondering similar things about us. Our gain is their loss.
Loyalty cards are another trend that might puzzle your parents and grandparents. How many "rewards" cards do you carry around? Why do we need to "belong" to a corporate giant in order to save 10 cents on a loaf of bread? If it's on sale, it should be on sale to all, right? More often than not, internet is required to redeem these rewards--that cute little coupon doesn't even come in the mail any more. Further examples of impending extinction: coupons and US mail service. It's crazy, but I feel like your Mom would have been all over those rewards and loyalty programs. I can just picture those cards jammed into her wallet--because of course they wouldn't be on her car keys!
I understand that these reward programs are all about getting to you...acquiring your email address is a prime goal. Back in the day, your mailing address and phone number were prime targets. It's evolved to the point where I'll give away my home phone number much faster these days in order to protect my cell phone number or my personal email. Or even my Facebook profile.
Facebook. If I could picture your Mom using the internet (and I have trouble doing that), I think she would love the connectivity Facebook provides. But I can only imagine the trouble it would get her into with those added advertising links and posts. I'm thinking Facebook would not be a big part of your Dad's life except through your mother's sharing.
I recall that long long phone cord at your house. Imagine how your Mom would love that she no longer needed to be tethered while on the phone! That's technology I imagine she would embrace. On the other hand, back in the day when you called a home phone number to speak to someone, you knew where that person was while you were speaking to them. You never had to ask "where are you?" Cell phones take away that parental GPS tool for checking on the young uns. Although there is GPS on phones........
GPS is great but I wonder if today's students have basic geographical understanding as to where they are located and how to get to another location. GPS sends you step by step but you lose that sense of travelling north or west. The little bitty screen doesn't allow you the past luxury of unfolding that monstrous road map and trying to finger point your intended path. Heaven help you if you put your finger on the GPS screen.
It is a wonderful world out there and things have changed over generations perpetually. They will continue to do so. Perhaps someday someone will be wondering similar things about us. Our gain is their loss.
Wednesday, June 4, 2014
Birthday remembrances Bob Dalpiaz
Happy Birthday to your Dad today! Early June seems like such a nice time for a birthday--the weather is usually nice and kids are looking forward to the end of the school year. Being heavily pregnant in the late spring seems to have it all over being heavily pregnant in the late summer! Continuing the the them of randomness, here are some images to help celebrate your dad's birthday:
Your Dad was always very kind to me and I appreciated his humor and faith in me. Still missed after all these years.
PS: Just in case you weren't aware, you can click on the image for a bigger version. This will be helpful with the newspaper articles especially.
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| Time Magazine cover from June 4 1928 |
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| Front page of a newspaper that was probably available to the Dalpiaz clan June 4 1928. Take note of the article in the bottom left corner about how a judge decided upon custody of a toddler. |
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| "Bobby" is about 5 here with Tommy Lessie |
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| Your mom, dad and Aunt Mary "On the Home Front" |
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| Apparently the Bellmore house. Notice the Dalpiaz men are the only ones in chairs. |
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| Early 1950s |
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| No tribute to your Dad would be complete without a reference to this! |
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| Under the hood probably a decade later |
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| Very proud Dad |
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| 1993 Easter |
PS: Just in case you weren't aware, you can click on the image for a bigger version. This will be helpful with the newspaper articles especially.
Tuesday, June 3, 2014
All the News That's Fit to Print
Random stuff as meteorological summer begins.
I've been unable to close any doors on those open dates in the family tree recently but I have found a little tidbit I thought you might enjoy. From the Brooklyn Daily Star April 1925 (or maybe 1926--it's a little blurry):
Although it appears there was another Peter Manzelli nearby in the same time period, this "bad boy" is definitely your mother's uncle Peter, since the home address listed in this article matches the longtime Manzelli homestead. I guess smart-mouthing authority is a long standing tradition for young squirts like Peter. I'm afraid it's quite possible this relative may have been something of a criminal mind in his young adulthood.
Your grandfather James Coffarelli was involved in an accident with a fire truck rushing into service. Once again, I could determine this is "your" James Coffarelli from the address given. Brooklyn Standard Union Oct 1922:
I'm not certain what an "automobile truck" is but this matches up pretty well with James' occupation as a chauffeur. Good to know no one was hurt.
On another note entirely, it was wonderful to see Aunt Rose, Diana, Linda, Jean, Mallory, Bobbie, Lindsay, Danielle, Monet, Michelle and Marisa at Cheryl's bridal shower this weekend! Another family wedding is coming up very soon and I can't wait to add Cheryl's name to the family tree.
I've been unable to close any doors on those open dates in the family tree recently but I have found a little tidbit I thought you might enjoy. From the Brooklyn Daily Star April 1925 (or maybe 1926--it's a little blurry):
Although it appears there was another Peter Manzelli nearby in the same time period, this "bad boy" is definitely your mother's uncle Peter, since the home address listed in this article matches the longtime Manzelli homestead. I guess smart-mouthing authority is a long standing tradition for young squirts like Peter. I'm afraid it's quite possible this relative may have been something of a criminal mind in his young adulthood.
Your grandfather James Coffarelli was involved in an accident with a fire truck rushing into service. Once again, I could determine this is "your" James Coffarelli from the address given. Brooklyn Standard Union Oct 1922:
I'm not certain what an "automobile truck" is but this matches up pretty well with James' occupation as a chauffeur. Good to know no one was hurt.
On another note entirely, it was wonderful to see Aunt Rose, Diana, Linda, Jean, Mallory, Bobbie, Lindsay, Danielle, Monet, Michelle and Marisa at Cheryl's bridal shower this weekend! Another family wedding is coming up very soon and I can't wait to add Cheryl's name to the family tree.
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