Tuesday, May 6, 2014

Update from Erie PA

I have just returned from a quick visit to Erie to see Amy and help with some wedding planning.  I thought this would be a good time to update you all as well so you could plan appropriately.  Amy's wedding to Michael Heisler will be held in the Erie PA area in August 2015.  Although the venue has not been confirmed, she is planning to be married Sunday Aug 16 2015.  So--yes, the wedding is in Erie PA on a Sunday in August.

She is debating between two venues.  Nick's Place and the Ambassador Center.  I think you can get a hint from their names of the major differences between the two sites.  She has some tough decisions to make in this regard!!! 

Nick's Place is 15-20 minutes from Erie closer to Edinboro (a college town).  If she chooses Nick's Place, we would probably arrange for rooms at a Comfort Inn in Edinboro as well as for rooms in Erie PA for those that might prefer to be closer to the highway and city life. 

The Ambassador Center is conveniently located just off the highway in Erie and has two hotels available at the site.  If she selects the Ambassador Center, the reception would be held from 6-10 PM as per their policy. 

In either case, it is her intention to hold the ceremony at the reception venue.  We understand this is both long into the future as well as a long trip for most of you so I wanted to get the word out for you to start thinking about your plans.  If you are interested in what goes on in Erie PA, check out www.visiterie.com 

Wedding planning is stressful for all as it tends to say a great deal about the personalities of the couple while at the same time attempting to appease the interests of the families involved.  Amy told me her main focus will be on making the day wonderful for her guests.  I remain uncertain of how to behave as a future mother-in-law.  When you have children, there are some helpful guidelines provided for how to be a good parent.  Not so much in this world of in-lawing. 

Since I've begun looking at this new world as the mother of the bride, I especially feel for those of you out there who have already navigated your way through these waters.  I see you all seem happy and have good relationships with your children, so I will assume it will all be OK in the end regardless!! 

Of course, this all brings to mind our own wedding.  Now I think about what your Mom and Dad must have been feeling.  It wasn't new to them as it is for us, but each child and spouse carry their own weight with their parents and in laws.  Erie will be as foreign to most of you as Walton was for those that were able to attend--it's just a bit further down the road. 

We are looking forward to all the events surrounding Brad and Cheryl's wedding, especially to seeing all of you together again.  Congratulations to Brand and Cheryl on their new home and upcoming nuptials!

2 comments:

Beach said...

Good Luck, God Bless and I wish I could help, but as you know, I have no experience at this. The only thing you should keep in mind is that the Dalpiaz's go anywhere for a wedding and have a wonderful time.

Pat D said...

You are correct and I should have mentioned that! :)